Just Love Mom

Life with the mom of a missionary family

Party Time

Yesterday was a day of celebration! Scott and the girls came home from Sri Lanka, we had a little party at our English class and then we all went to a birthday party before verge (and before Scott had to leave again last night.)

Our English class has been working so hard. Last we we focused on learning clothing vocabulary, the week before was colors, this week we decided to introduce body parts and have a little Cinco de Mayo party. I really know nothing about Cinco de Mayo, or Mexico, despite living on it’s border for a year, (I could have facebooked my friend Lynne, but I only just right now thought of that). So, this is what we pulled together:

Head and Shoulders Knees and Toes – only faster, and faster, and faster and faster!!!
Pin the tail on the Donkey – body parts of a donkey, and hey, they have donkeys in Mexico, right? I found an excellent free resource for a printable pin the tail on the donkey. You can get it HERE

Balloon Between the Knees Race – We all know where our knees are now! And didn’t the balloon originate in Mexico? No?

click here to see some balloon race action

Pinata!! – For sure this one is Mexican!! We had no where to hang it, and no adult was brave enough to hold it up, even from a long stick, so we put it on the ground. Sortof pinata cricket.

Pinata

There it is! The pinata quivering with fear!!

It was finally whacked into the bushes where it exploded, candy everywhere!!!

Candy Scramble!!!

After that party, we headed over to our neighbor’s first birthday party!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SOPHIE!!!

English Camp

There’s something special about our neighborhood. Maybe it’s the way we consider each other family.

We Are Family

This week some Bible college students from Canada visited and helped us show our neighbors just how much we appreciate them.
We had a “Cultural Exchange”. The students taught our neighbors English and some North American games and songs, and our neighbors (mostly the children, but not only!!) taught the students some Thai and some Thai games and songs.

Not Sure if Mrs Chicken is a Thai Game or North American..

Every day women from the neighborhood brought drinks and lunch (real lunch, fried chicken or pork or noodles) for all the participants

Our Fairy God Mothers With Lunch

Gimme Some of That Real Food

We topped it all off with a big neighborhood party this morning.

It's Not a Party Unless There's Ice Cream!!

Face Painting!!

Crafts!! Snowflakes in Honor of Team Canada!!

Balloons!!! (these boys are taking a rest from chasing Ami with the balloons.)

Whew! busy day! Any body else tired?

One Night in Bangkok

It was a perfect day. Almost magical.

'Cause a chicken is a person in our neighborhood

An adventure walk across the street with Dagny to see chickens and doggies.

 
Crowded!!!
A trip on the busy BTS Skytrain to see a movie with the littles;

 
What a lovely surprise!

A walk home under a beautiful sunset, only to run into a balloon vendor half a block from home.

 

"Pooh Bear is smiling, Mommy"

A new floaty friend.

 

YUM!! Best noodles around, for only 25baht

All followed by a late snack at the noodle stand on our street.

 

It was everything good about Bangkok.

 

And it would have been the perfect day if I’d just stayed home. But I had to run out to the corner store for peanut butter.

 

And I came across the woman and the little boy on the bicycle. She was on our street because Dag and I had been on hers with the DeWits.  We were offering to teach English to whoever was interested. She needed more than English lessons. She was looking for a job. Her boyfriend had died and she just needed to do enough work to get 250baht to pay her rent or she and her little guy were out on the street.

 

There is one very lucrative option for her if she doesn’t find work. This is, after all, Bangkok.

 

Verge 50, the church plant we’re a part of, has the goal of facilitating microloans so women in this situation will have more options.

 

Until we have this in place the memory of this young woman is going to keep me up at night. Like it did last night.

God Rigs Football Games

The Broncos won a football game on Sunday. I didn’t get to see it, so I “watched” it on Twitter. The tweets went some thing like this:

Pittsburg vs The Guys who are going to lose

Wow! Broncos are doing well!

Oh my goodness! OT!!

and then the internet errupted

TEBOW

and then.. one person juked the entire interworld.

30,000 children died of preventable diseases, but God cares about a football game. Sure.

Shhhh… Don’t be like that. God does care about football. Just maybe God rigged that game.
Why?
Because 30,000 children died of preventable diseases.

Follow my reasoning:

The Broncos win the game and then
people want to see the winning pass so
they Google Tim Tebow and
they find out about The Tim Tebow Foundation which
has just partnered with CURE to
build a hospital in the Philippines and
is now taking your donations so
children won’t die of preventable diseases.

There.

Tim Tebow Announces the Tebow CURE Hospital from CURE Video on Vimeo.

One Word 2011 Review – Waiting

If I were to sum up 2011 in one word it would be

WAITING.

It seemed like we were always waiting. Waiting for Scott to come home for the weekend. Waiting for our approval from Thailand. Waiting for funds. Waiting (and waiting and waiting) for our visas. Waiting to move to Bangkok.

So it was fitting that one of the last church services of 2011 was spent WAITING.
Church starts, is supposed to start, around 10:30. At 11:00 Alyse calls out “While we’re waiting, I have a game for everyone to play”
um, what are we waiting for?

 

While we’re waiting, why don’t we sing some Christmas carols? Sure the kids can play the drums. We’re not really doing anything. We’re just waiting.
Why are we still waiting?

While we’re waiting, Beth has something to share about what God is speaking to her.
Do you know what we’re waiting for?

 

While we’re waiting, why don’t we see some cool dancing?
Church “ended” ten minutes ago. Are we still waiting?


WAITING. We spent the whole time waiting. From 10:30 until almost 1:00.

We talked, we sang, we ate, we shared. We laughed at babies playing the drums.

What were we waiting for? We were waiting to realize that even while we wait, important things are happening.

And I realized, while I spent 2011 waiting, things were happening. While I was waiting for Scott to come home, I was becoming independent. While I was waiting for our visas, I was learning to trust God for my future. While I was waiting to move, I made some wonderful friends and spent time with my family right where I was.

Some of the most important things happen while we wait for something else.
Are you waiting?

Rahab Ministries


I wrote this soon after arriving here, in very early November. It’s taken me this long to amputate it from my soul and put it out on to the internet.

I haven’t really written anything since arriving in Bangkok. I’ve even really been awol from Twitter and Facebook. Not like me at all. Writing for me comes out of thinking. I usually wake up with three or four blog posts and twenty-five tweets pinging around in my brain. It could be the coffee. I’m usually a very caffeinated person. Not here. Haven’t found a great brand yet. I haven’t had the pinging thoughts here. My thoughts seem to sort of wade through my brain. Never really forming a perfect post. Just sort of slogging around.
Thoughts are heavier here. Thoughts are really heavy after yesterday. Yesterday I visited with Rahab Ministries. Rahab Ministries is an outreach to women and girls who work in the bars as prostitutes. They have a Bible study, English classes and a business making jewelery and crocheted stuffed animals so that girls who want to leave the bar scene can make an income. They don’t make alot. In the bars, the girls can make a whopping $10 a day. At Rahab, they only make minimum wage. (These are the numbers they gave me, not sure what minimum wage is here). After a girl has been out of the bar scene for six months, Rahab invests in retraining, education or trade, so that they can go on to support themselves. Slow thoughts here. A group of us went yesterday. We got to hear the testimonies of two of the women who had left the bar scene.

Outside Rahab


I’ve met prostitutes before. Their stories are painful and tragic. I’ve met former prostitutes before. Their stories are victorious and powerful. I’ve never met women like these before. These two ladies were moms whose marriages had failed who had no other way to support their kids. If you thought prostitution was dehumanizing before, come to Thailand and experience people being degraded on a whole new level. A guy walking in the red light district will be approached with a catalog of girls to choose from. Or they could pick one in a bar. Girls can be rented for days at a time. They’re encouraged to drink and take drugs so that they can put on a good face and please their customers. When you see bar girls with a Western guy, it looks like they’re having a great time. The better time they seem to be having, the more money they can make. But some of these are moms. It makes me wonder, who’s looking after their kids while they’re away? How can they parent dealing with the hours, the drugs, the shame?
I get to this point in my slow thought process and I’m bogged down in despair. It’s like my thoughts are wading though mud. We met some very young girls, some young moms. One little pregnant girl who was probably the cutest thing I’ve ever seen. How will they live? At Rahab they’ve learned to make stuffed animals. They were something you’d use to decorate a baby’s room, or give to your teenage daughter for Valentine’s Day. I bought Dagny a little puppy dog.
I was struck by the dichotomy of prostitutes making something so innocent.

Each stuffed animal takes one day to make and gives them one day’s wage. For every stuffed animal they sell, they can stay out of the bars for one day. They can live in freedom for 24 hours. They can work in a place that encourages, instead of one that degrades. They can learn about God and how much He loves them. They can see proof of God’s love as His people reach out to help them. They can stay awake during the day and be there for their kids at night. They can choose what to do with their bodies.

A better life

Reading this a few weeks later, I realized that I should include some contact information for Rahab. If you’d like to learn more about this ministry, support them or order Jewellery or some of the stuffed animals, you can contact them here: Rahab Ministries

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Burmese border school

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Dagny doesn’t realize that we’re on the border of a military dictatorship, or that she’s the only white kid, or that the playground is made of wood and steel, or that the houses are all bamboo, or that there’s dust everywhere, or that families live on two dollars a day. Nothing seems different. Nothing’s out of place. There’s a slide and friends and all seems right with the world.

VERY URGENT REQUEST – FLOOD RELIEF

We got a call last night from the DeWits in Bangkok. The drinking water in the city has been compromised because of the floods. We have been given the opportunity to purchase personal water filtration straws at the wholesale price of $6. We can bring as many as we want. The straws will filter 200 Gallons. Whole families will be able to have safe water from just one straw. We have already been given enough for our family to use, but there is a huge need in the city for safe water. If you have been wondering how to help with the flood relief efforts in Bangkok, this is the perfect opportunity.

We drive down to Toronto tomorrow (Monday) to catch our flight, so we need to pick the straws up in Cobden today. We are looking for people to sponsor at least ten straws at $6 each. These straws will open amazing doors into bringing the gospel to Bangkok. The more straws we have, the more people we can help. If you would like to sponsor the purchase of these straws please email us at JustLoveMinistry@gmail.com

Four Sleeps to Go – Moving to Thailand Update

Keep in mind, I’m using “sleep” in its very loosest form. Sleep meaning: laid there for a couple of hours until that got boring.

Our internet is gone. Our modem died on Monday and the internet company couldn’t replace it quickly enough for it to be worth it before we had to cancel anyway. I have the only internet access on my phone. The rest of the family has learned that they can use my phone to tether their ipods and computers. So I haven’t seen my phone lately. But today, since my husband, Banking and my son, Lego Universe are away and my daughters, Itunes, Facebook and YouTube are all still asleep, I have time to give you a brief update.

We are packed! Everything fits into some hockey bags and back packs. This is actually a pretty easy move for us because we’re not really bringing anything. The only things I’m really not looking forward to is the 20 hours of travel with a two year old.

This week has been full of goodbyes. And parties. And more goodbyes. And tears. And time for just one more coffee or one more dinner. Since Friday, we’ve:

Had a Nerf War birthday party for Irish

Carved pumpkins

Had a Christmaween (Halloween and Christmas) Party for the girls

Been commissioned at Highway Pentecostal and had a party with cake

Eaten with some great friends. Had coffee with other great friends

Largely ignored the mess

Let it sink in that we’re actually moving.

Our house in Bangkok is, at this time, still not flooded. Flood relief work has started in Bangkok and we hope to be a part of this as soon as we hit the ground.

Welcome Home

the government can't reach everyone affected

Hundreds dead, thousands displaced

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